My child care provider, a stay-at-home-mom who was caring for Aaron Tuesdays and Thursdays, quit last week. Is finding new child care in a hurry the ultimate challenge of parenthood? It is slow going. Luckily, my neighbor coincidentally quit her job at the same time, and is taking over for the time being.
But this means adjusting to a new provider who isn't familiar with breast milk. And it has been a weird week feeding Aaron. Just last week (at 7 1/2 months) he started going gangbusters with table food, after a tepid reception for 1 1/2 months. And Monday, with my husband, he ate lots of apples and cereal, and only 3 ounces of milk (9 ounces is typical). The next day, with our neighbor, he ate tons of apples, cereal, and squash, and 15 ounces of milk! When I got home our neighbor was routing around in our freezer for more milk!
Even though my supply issues are hopefully behind me, we're not oversupplied with milk around here. And I'm becoming convinced that Aaron is often being overfed. Fairly consistently, my husband and my parents use a little less milk than I provide. And the old and new day care providers use more than I provide (by way of frozen milk). I'm wondering if Aaron's relatives are more sensitive and knowledgeable about his moods? And maybe others are more apt to use a bottle to cure all ills? And certainly aren't as sensitive to how breast milk is gold around here, and should be treated as such!
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Breast Milk is gold!
I remember how challenged I was with my first daughter in this department, too! Believe it or not, my mom was one I had to convince that "more is not always better." And I am reminded of the time when I had to have two tag-team babysitters in the same evening. Between them, they wasted five ounces of unused breast milk! Five ounces! I was so upset! Not only for the complete disregard of how challenging it was to come up with the milk in the first place (aaarrrrgh! Five precious ounces...wasted!!), but also that the only solution they could come up for my baby's upsets was the bottle! Needless to say, neither one was called back unless I was desparate!
I just had our second child (another daughter) in June, and am returning to work next week, when she is three months old. I am stressing out about breast milk supply (I currently have only 7oz in the freezer), and am wondering if this time around will be any easier, or if being a seasoned mommy will bring wisdom and peace. We shall see...
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